June 2nd, 2004


How to be a nice person?

Grrr. This is frustrating.
I've been reading the journal of a friend whom I've fallen out of contact with. I haven't seen her in years, and we rarely talk. I'm worried about her, because her life has definitely taken a downward curve and I don't know how to talk to her about it. I mean, "Hi, we haven't spoken in a year or two and I can't help but notice your life sucks so y'know what's wrong with you? Did you realize you're making crappy discisions?" is not the way to go about addressing it. Maybe inviting her to meet me for coffee or something would work. It's hard to tell. We had a falling out before high school ended and while we were officially OK I'm not sure that actually patched up well. I don't even know what it was about, so eh. Who knows.